Overwhelm isn’t a sign you’re failing—it’s a signal something needs to shift.
These seven habits have carried me through the busiest seasons, and they still work because they’re simple, repeatable, and rooted in how God actually wired us for rest, joy, and rhythm.
- Prioritize real sleep Your brain and soul need 7–9 hours of consistent rest. Same bedtime, same wake time—even on weekends. When we’re exhausted, everything feels heavier than it is. God built a rhythm of work and rest into creation itself (even He rested on the seventh day). Honor it.
- Guard what you consume Stay informed, never obsessed. Doomscrolling, rage-bait headlines, and negative feeds are spiritual junk food. Curate your inputs ruthlessly. If a person or platform consistently drags you down, mute, unfollow, or step away. Protect your peace like the treasure it is.
- Let it go (yes, sing it if you have to) Most of what stresses us won’t matter in a week, much less eternity. When you feel the tension rising, literally say out loud, “This does not affect world peace,” then release it. Hand it to God. The peace that passes understanding isn’t theoretical—it’s available the moment we stop clutching.
- Move your body daily A brisk walk, a run, lifting weights, dancing in the kitchen—anything that raises your heart rate resets your nervous system. Exercise is incarnational prayer: you’re stewarding the body God gave you, and endorphins are His chemistry saying, “I’ve got you.”
- Practice intentional silence Five minutes. Ten if you’re brave. No phone, no music, no podcast. Just breathe and be still, and remember who is God (spoiler: it’s not you). Silence is where the Holy Spirit does His quietest, deepest work. We avoid it because it’s uncomfortable. Lean in anyway.
- Have fun on purpose Life is not meant to be endured—it’s meant to be enjoyed. Play video games, watch a dumb comedy, laugh until your stomach hurts with friends, build something silly with your kids. Joy is not a luxury; it’s oxygen for the soul. The joy of the Lord is your strength, not your productivity.
- Build a “Happy Playlist” Fill it with songs that make you smile, cry happy tears, or remember who God says you are. Mine has everything from old hymns to Christian hip-hop to songs from the 80’s that I grew up with. When overwhelm creeps in, hit play and go for a walk. Music bypasses the overthinking brain and goes straight to the heart.
You don’t need all seven today. Pick one. Do it before your head hits the pillow tonight.
Then leave a comment and tell me which one you chose.
Peace isn’t the absence of storms—it’s the presence of Christ in them. These habits just clear enough space for you to notice He’s already there.